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Live in this country make me feel bored even though it is full of " happiness " ( based on some polls on the internet ).
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@Ukitake07
Many thanks to you for thinking it's a talent. About BuzzFeedVideo, ya know, it's one of my favourites, indeed. Btw, I hope that you'll soon recover from your illness.
Break a leg
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It's pretty tough. Someone implied it's different in Western country but I wonder about that. People, no matter where in this world, mostly like 'fun' people, the bright, active, 'can-do-it' ones instead of the kind who 'only-talk-about-it'. I've watched a video about introverts, the speaker, who is an introverts herself, a Westerner, tried to emphasize that people should accept introverts and that introverts have their own values, etc. it's a great speech, but to get closer to her ideals, as well as introverts', many things need to change, including school system. Life is getting more and more active, maybe people can't accept if you have a sign of 'slowing down', and if you don't show them what you think, they won't have time to understand. This includes other problems as well but let's talk about a problem you need to face sooner or later: working. If you have connections, people to support you then you may not need to worry, but if you want to work, to earn a living, you need to adapt to the environment or people can't work with you. Of course it also depends on your choice of work, but it's not so great anyway - to be an introvert at work. (silly me, I don't even know if you've worked yet, if you have, you know how terrible it is being an introvert at work, right? If you have not, imagine that working environment, oh gosh, terrible!!) and one last thing, I'm sorry for saying this but your way of thinking is quite naive, things are not all about that
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@Du Nhiên: I really appreciate your thoughts.
Thanks.
you know how terrible it is being an introvert at work, right?
Sorry, but I don't.
I'm sorry for saying this
Don't be.
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I've done this quiz lately: What Level Of Introvert Are You?
And this was my result:
You got: Extreme Introvert
You are basically a hermit. You avoid dealing with other people as much as possible, and mostly live a quiet, peaceful life of solitude.
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"If only my health condition allow it, I would want to sit alone on the beach in the pouring rain without an umbrella. In that way I can feel that the whole world belongs to me and me only. And the beat when the rain falls into the ocean surface can create a perfect music to the ear. " - Tử
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Well, I think living in Vietnam is still not much of a challenge, in term of emotion satisfaction for an introvert. In my case, I consider myself as an introvert, but life in Vietnam is not tough for me. I mean, you still have your friends (though not many) here, right? Your family also counts. At least, when you feel the urge of sharing something (introverts also have the need of sharing, don't they?), you have people to talk to.
It's different and more tiring when you're thrown in a totally new environment using different languages. This will become worse when you're an introvert. You have to struggle with your new friends and another language when communicating. It's difficult, and depressing. Eventually, you suddenly find out that you're on your own and all alone That's what an introvert like me felt at first. Things get better. You will grow familiar with the surroundings and develop the abilities to cope with the situation anyway.
So yeah, being an introvert makes you feel things are tough at first, until you are used to them.
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I would like to share my experience
I'm not exactly an introvert, I feel like I'm more of a shy extrovert, which is kinda similar lol
To be honest I understand where you get this idea from
From my own experience, you can be judged a lot in Vietnam. No matter what you do there will always be that one person that talks crap about your work. This creates insecurity for the introverts, as they are less likely to express their feelings and thoughts. The lack of understanding and empathy often affect the introverts, making them even more shy and less likely to hang out. Contrary to Vietnam, British people are less likely to judge in my opinion. I guess since people are already used to the drama or it's just because no one gives a shit about random people haha. And since people are not being judgemental, you can literally do whatever you want. I wear pajamas to school and no one says a word lol. In a way, by not being judged, your self-esteem can be boosted dramatically haha. Not to mention London weather is literally the most disturbing thing in the world. And since the weather is so bad, no one wants to leave the house! This means heaven for the introverts!
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Ukitake07
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I've done this quiz lately:
What Level Of Introvert Are You?
And this was my result:
You got: Extreme Introvert
You are basically a hermit. You avoid dealing with other people as much as possible, and mostly live a quiet, peaceful life of solitude.
Thank you for your understanding and this quiz it's funny, I got Extreme Introvert as well I guess I'm just no good with people. The sentence 'live a quiet, peaceful life of solitude' is absolutely correct, it's my wish!
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Being an introvert is tough man, but you know what's worse?
Being an introvert who also has crippling social awkwardness and anxiety
People expect you to go outside and do lots of stuff but you just feel scared and exhausted 99% of the time
(Oh my god sorry I don't mean to rant but I sure hope to find someone who also feels like this. people don't get this sometimes)
I know there are introverts out there but they seem to get overshadowed by extroverts. I guess that's to be expected :/
Sửa lần cuối bởi ReiNaka; 06-02-2015 lúc 09:23.
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ReiNaka
Being an introvert is tough man, but you know what's worse?
Being an introvert who also has crippling social awkwardness and anxiety
People expect you to go outside and do lots of stuff but you just feel scared and exhausted 99% of the time
(Oh my god sorry I don't mean to rant but I sure hope to find someone who also feels like this. people don't get this sometimes)
I know there are introverts out there but they seem to get overshadowed by extroverts. I guess that's to be expected :/
Our persona doesn’t reflect who we truly are.
Just find the symbol and you’ll be fine, ReiNaka.
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I don't really think the country has anything to do with being an introvert or an extrovert. It is our social circle and the image we want to project that define the way we feel about our lives.
Everyone desires success of which concepts vary upon individuals. It might be fame or money, it might be love, recognition or achievement in academic fileds. Either way, as a matter of fact, it can't be denied that the world nowadays is moving too fast for introverts who tend to take time to adapt to the changes. Also, the way introverts perceive the world is more deeply and personal-related than others and thus, as we live in a world dominated by business and social networks, where everything involves relationships, introverts might feel constricted.
However, as time goes by, I believe that it is introverts who will prevail upon others. Because we set the goals and we are more determined to achieve it than anyone else. Also, even though we can't start a conversation as smoothly as extroverts, others who once conversed with us tend to regard us more highly because we think more profoundly and our ideas are more original and sincere.
So just relax and focus on our work but don't forget to be more open to others. A frequent smile when we say hello, a normal exchange of the weather, a compliment of fashion and day by day, you will find yourselves in a network not as extending but more sincere than those of extroverts.
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